Interesting connection between not getting an answer = failure.
To the rest of it - yes, it also means you don't have any control. For me, that is where the fear stems from in wanting answers. If I have an answer, even if it's one I don't like, then at least I know - I can make decisions, have control. Sitting smack in the center of the void take a lot of practice and patience.
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Date: 2009-03-11 09:35 pm (UTC)To the rest of it - yes, it also means you don't have any control. For me, that is where the fear stems from in wanting answers. If I have an answer, even if it's one I don't like, then at least I know - I can make decisions, have control. Sitting smack in the center of the void take a lot of practice and patience.
*big hugs*